Archives for July 2010

You will be so deeply missed…….

Last week we got word that my husband’s Grandma (Molly) was expected to pass away from pancreatic cancer.  We ended up driving down to St. Louis in hopes of being able to say our final goodbyes (though we didn’t know if we would get there in time). 

We arrived at Molly’s home in St. Louis at 4:30pm.  Brett went quickly into the house to be by Molly’s side.  They told Molly that Brett had arrived and she opened her eyes, for what we think was the last time, and reacted with a little smile.

The family sat by her bedside all day, holding her hand, talking to her, making little chit-chat.  At the point that myself and the girls came to her side, she was no longer very responsive.  So, I did what I could and sang to her – “Someone to Watch Over Me”.

 Grand-Molly with our daughter, Savannah Rose

We left Molly’s home around 10:30pm and Molly took her final breath at 6:30am the next day.  She was surrounded by her children and left us very comfortably and in no pain.  God truly works in very mysterious ways. Molly passed away on July 8th, her husband (Bill) passed away 12 years prior on July 8th and our daughter Matilda (Molly’s great-granddaughter) turned 1 on July 8th.

The whole experience was very powerful and moving for me.  And further strengthened my belief in our amazing and powerful Lord.  To see all of the family surrounding Molly in her final hours and to see the love and care provided by her own children.  I could only hope that in my final hours that I am surround by such wonderful family and love.

 Brett, Savannah, Vicki (Brett’s Mom) and Grand-Molly
Four Generations

We had the wake on Sunday and the funeral on Monday.  I was asked to sing several songs at the funeral and chose “You Are Mine” and “Amazing Grace”.

You Are Mine
by David Haas
I will come to you in the silence
I will lift you from all your fear
You will hear My voice
I claim you as My choice
Be still, and know I am near

I am hope for all who are hopeless
I am eyes for all who long to see
In the shadows of the night,
I will be your light
Come and rest in Me

Do not be afraid, I am with you
I have called you each by name
Come and follow Me
I will bring you home
I love you and you are mine

I am strength for all the despairing
Healing for the ones who dwell in shame
All the blind will see, the lame will all run free
And all will know My name
 

Do not be afraid, I am with you
I have called you each by name
Come and follow Me
I will bring you home
I love you and you are mine

I am the Word that leads all to freedom
I am the peace the world cannot give
I will call your name, embracing all your pain
Stand up, now, walk, and live

Do not be afraid, I am with you
I have called you each by name
Come and follow Me
I will bring you home

I love you and you are mine
Molly will be so deeply missed, but we are comforted in knowing that she is up in Heaven reunited with her husband Bill and truly enjoying eternal life.  We love you Molly.

{ Matilda’s Summer Garden Party }

This past weekend was my daughter, Matilda Jane’s 1st Birthday Party.  The party was inspired by the fabric I made her birthday outfit from – Heather Bailey’s “Nicey Jane”. We decided to do an intimate party and had 20 of our closest family and friends over to the Cottage Garden to celebrate.

Miss Matilda had a great time at her party and thoroughly enjoyed her cake.  It was her 1st time to have something that delicious so she was in baby heaven!

I used the same fabrics that I designed Matilda’s birthday dress in and made a pennant banner.  I didn’t have a pattern for this, I just sewed two rectangles of fabric (right sides together), turned them right-side out, pressed them and stitched them to coordinating bias tape.  I think these will also be great for Easter decorations in the future.

The flowers were cut from our own garden.  We have several large hydrangea bushes that are in full bloom right now.  So the morning of the party, I went out and cut a big bouquet of flowers.  I placed the flowers in a silver, tall galvanized bucket to match some of the other decorations for the party.  I love being able to use the nature around us – and what’s even better, is the flowers were absolutely free!

I made large, over-sized paper pinwheels from several shades of blue and green.  I spray painted wooden dowel rods green, cut square pieces of scrapbook paper into pinwheel shapes and hammered them into the rods with basic tacks.  I placed these into the same tall, galvanized metal buckets as the flowers.  I placed fiberfill inside the buckets to hold them in place, but florist foam would work even better.

I wrapped each set of silverware in coordinating yellow napkins and tied them with a blue satin ribbon.

I made large paper balls using this great tutorial from Martha Stewart.  These were VERY easy to make (they took like five minutes each) and only cost me $1.00 since I bought the tissue paper from our local dollar store.

 

Here is little Matilda’s birthday hat.  I simply covered a cardboard birthday hat with coordinating fabric, added a ruffle and some rick-rack to match her dress.

As I have mentioned before, my husband is an award-winning home-brewer.  He makes a beer (for the adults, of course) for each of the girls birthday parties.  Here is Matilda’s 1st birthday beer.  Brett made this sign to put on the keg at the party.  He served four different beers on tap, but “Tilda’s Sweet Cheeks Wheat” was the main attraction.

For the party favors, I gave out summer beach bags.  I took a store-bought tote bag and appliqued each family’s last initial onto the bag in fabric from Matilda’s birthday dress. 

I have so much fun menu planning!  It takes me some time to figure out what I want to serve, but since we did a smaller party this time, I was able to focus more on the food.

I wanted to make something festive to drink, so I pureed a 1/4 of a watermelon, added 1/2 cup sugar and mixed it with some ginger ale.  This made, what I like to call, Watermelon Fizz.

I made a large anti-pasta platter as an appetizer for our guests.  I used red-leaf lettuce as the base for my platter.  I marinated some fresh mozzarella, lightly roasted some tomatoes, and got some other store-bought ingredients to complete the tray.  I served crostini and bread-sticks on the side.

Loaded Potato Salad
Pecan Coleslaw
Zucchini with Red Onion and Feta
Grilled Corn Salad with Roasted Peppers
Fruit Kabobs
Fresh Watermelon
These are the birthday cupcakes on the tiered trays that I made last week (remember this post?).  These are store-bought cupcakes – have I mentioned before that I DO NOT bake?  I simply added large, clear sugar to the top of these little cakes.  
I don’t care for baking and I don’t think I’m very good at it – too much precise measuring and science for me.  I much prefer the creativity of cooking.  Anyway, I made these “1” cupcake toppers using my Cricut Expression machine and glued them to lollipop sticks. 
Big sister Savannah had a great time at the party and was a really big helper.  She thoroughly enjoyed the juicy watermelon.
We truly lucked out with fabulous weather the day of the party – low 80’s, no humidity.  It could not have been more perfect!
It’s very hard for me to believe that my little sweet pea will be one on Thursday.  Matilda Jane has brought so much joy to our lives and as I write this post, I just want to give that little munchkin a squeeze.  

We Love You, Matilda!

Happy 4th of July

I just wanted to write a quick note to wish everyone a very happy 4th of July.  I know I’m a day late, but we have been super busy around here!

As you can see we have just been go, go, go around here.  My Mom and Allen flew in from Texas on Friday, we celebrated Matilda’s 1st birthday on Saturday afternoon with a Summer Garden Party (I can’t wait to share all the details with you!), had professional family photos taken at our home on Sunday morning, visited our local flea market Sunday afternoon (hunting for vintage treasure), spent Monday morning at the park and shopping this afternoon.

It’s been a whirl-wind of a time, but we are just loving every minute of this wonderful family time.  I hope every one else has had a lovely weekend!  Happy 4th of July!!

Cottage Mama’s Note:  I made my little drama queen’s (Savannah) dress from Riley Blake’s “All-Star” fabric line.